[Elizabeth]

ok I have to ask and see if there is something wrong with me. Sometimes after I have sex with my fiance I get this cramp that is on the lower left side above my pubic area, more like right above my hip bone. I'm not sure if it is due to his large membrain ,lol, but I don't like it, it hurts. It's kinda worse then a menstural cramp. I was just wondering if any of you ladies have ever had this type of unusual encounter and if so could you please fill me in on what the heck it is?

Elizabeth

[Naughty Nurse]

Well, I've not experienced this before...well, wait, if I'd gotten into some wierd, or prolonged position

How long does it last? Like it could maybe be just muscle spasms from having a glorious encounter I have often heard though that women who have endometriosis experience this.

[DblDmnGd38]

I use to experience this also and it was caused by having cysts, my doctor put me on bc and now I pass them every month. If it does cause you enough pain to double over I would go see a doctor. I'm not sure if it is the same pain that I experienced years ago or not. Bump for more opinions or I would recommend you go see your doctor. Keep us posted though.

[hippydonna]

i have endometriosis and this is one of the symptoms i get. i`m not saying this is what you have. but you should definately get it checked it out. just to be on the safe side.

[Elizabeth]

oh no , now I'm freakin out , omg I hope it is not this.

It usually happens when I'm like on my side, like a fetal position. Really my fiance has a huge huge huge u know what, but when Im in this position it goes really deep. Thats why I was asking if any of you had this problem and thank you for you advice. I'm making an appointment for the doc and hopefully it wont be bad news.

I never get this cramping or any kind of pain unless we have really deep sex.

So if this maybe something else besides the cyst thing, I'm wondering if it is just because of the fact that he's huge? lol

[DblDmnGd38]

Good luck and keep us posted.

[hippydonna]

sorry i didn`t mean to freak you out. but you do need to get things checked. good luck with it.

[Kata]

I have pain like that too, same problem my boyfriend is big, but my pain is also due to the fact that I have a retrograde uterus.. and it hits it in certain positions (especaily deep ones) The doctor just told me to try positions that lengthen the vaginal canal, ie doggy style, and avoid those that shorthen it, like legs by your ears type thing. I didn't mean to get graffic just trying to help!

[blakemail669]

This also has happened to me on so many occasions I could not count. I saw my Gyno and she said it was just a reaction my body was having to my boyfriend's size. It really hurt in that spot when I urinated and then stood up! So weird. But it seems that when I have the big 'O' it doesn't happen at all. Try to remember if this only happens when you don't have the big 'O'

[Elizabeth]

Yes as a matter of fact it does only happen when I dont have an O. This is so wierd but I really dont think I have any cysts or anything like that , I have my regular check ups and things so I think I'm safe in that area. I just needed to know that I am not the only one whom is haveing or has had this experience. Thanks, On my next check up though I will mention it to my DOC and see what she says .

Originally Posted by blakemail669

This also has happened to me on so many occasions I could not count. I saw my Gyno and she said it was just a reaction my body was having to my boyfriend's size. It really hurt in that spot when I urinated and then stood up! So weird. But it seems that when I have the big 'O' it doesn't happen at all. Try to remember if this only happens when you don't have the big 'O'