[Annabelle]

Do you ever fantasize about someone else when your with your partner?
I find myself doing this more and more. I'm not sure if I'm not in love with him anymore or just bored. Has anyone else ever done this?

[dirdybirdy]

Originally Posted by Annabelle

Do you ever fantasize about someone else when your with your partner?
I find myself doing this more and more. I'm not sure if I'm not in love with him anymore or just bored. Has anyone else ever done this?

I suppose it would depend on how long you two have been together. I read an article a little while ago about how after a few years in a relationship you're bound to want to change things up, and fantasizing about someone else during sex is a better alternative to actually having an affair (duh, right?)....

I think its impossible that no one other than your man will pop into your head at some point. If this starts to happen with me I just shake it off and refocus on what I'm doing. It seems like sex is always so much better when you're paying attention to exactly what's happening anyway.

[FrenchBread]

To be completely honest....NO, I've never done that. I would feel very guilty and would probably have to re-evaluate the relationship situation.

[Rose]

My boyfriend and I fell into a rut a few months back. I got this really hot little nurse's outfit, and it was just what the doctor order. Maybe you should try that.

[Rocket]

As a male on this board, I can say when I am with my wife she is the only one on my mind, However she oftens "Dresses Up" for me and after 15 years together she is still very HOT!!! I must say I love to look at nice looking ladies on the street and I do look at porn...but in 15 years I have only been with one women and she does still get my attention!!!

Rocket

[Rimsha55]

Of course, fantasies are playing very important role in relaxing mind and body. Happiness, pleasure, Joy and amusement are nothing but production of fantasies. .