[j_mull2]

Hi Everyone,

I've been looking for a forum like this for a while. Other womens forums are too "hard core" for my tastes. I'm in my early 30's and have been around gyms for many years, mostly for aerobics and light weight training. I am definetly heterosexual and currently in a great relationship. I had never even thought about other womens before, that is until about a month ago and this is why I joined this forum. I have developed a crush on this girl at my club. She just joined over the summer. I don't understand how I can feel like I do but I can't explain it. I would feel too uncomfortable and embarrased telling my girlfriends about my feelings and that's why I'm here. Does anyone know where I'm coming from? The girl has no idea of my feelings for her but I often wonder. Should I just let it pass? I'm all to familiar with gym gossip and how fast it spreads so I'm afraid to do anything. Any Ideas?

[all zen]

Are you sure you're attracted to this woman in a sexual way? or are you just caught up in the new friendship ,for example.... same interests ect?(fitness, health, food , lifestyle ect.) I know sometimes its hard when the people your the closest to do not share the same interests.Do you think of this girl in a sexual manner? Has she shared any feelings or thoughts about her lifestyle or even feelings for you?....maybe a little bit more info could help sort it out..

[j_mull2]

Thanks for your advice. Even though I still have these feelings for her I am not ready to act on them. I have been talking with her more at the gym and we even went out together with a group of girls from the gym. I think she would actually be flattered if I told her and rumor is she's been with women before. If you all think it's wrong to cheet on my husband with her, is it ok or normal to fantasize and masturbate thinking of her? Again I never thought of a women in this way before but I guess there is a first for everything. How many of you have had these feelings or even experienced another women? Is it just a phase?

[bigmama]

I think all women go through as certain period of being curious. I have, and even experimented. All in all it was fun but it will ruin friendships and relationships. If you are with a signifcant other and you chose to share the experience it can lead to feelings of insecurties on both part. If this women isn't bi then you could totally blow a good frendship.. if you know you are straight then keep it that way, it just gets more confusing. How long have you been married? are you sure this isn't just a way to spice up the sex life?

[j_mull2]

We've been married 4 years and love each other very much. Our sex life is great and I really couldn't ask for more. I'm just curious!!!! I thought about telling him about her but like you said I don't want to screw anything up. I'll keep everyone posted if anything changes.

[johnkalli1990]

First time sex is always became a challenged.But once you go through, I don't think so that there arises any problem except when you encountered any medical problem.This point must be keep in mind that every relationship between a girl & boy is not just revolved around sex & lust.There are some other bindings to exists.Try to feel those..

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